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Size mania

Ah, the joys of spring. Bring on the birds, bees and, unequivocally, the body issues. Yep, that’s right. The most non-wonderful time of the year is upon us: swim suit season. Cue the crash diets, kick up the gymtime and enter the calorie counting, because it’s time to shed those winter pounds.

Amid this impending weight-loss hysteria, Cosmo published a super interesting article about the emotional power of clothing sizes. And, speaking as a girl gearing up for a fabulous week-long spring break cruise to the Bahamas, I could not relate more.

The battle arises yearly. Lose weight! Get into shape! Drop a size and feel good about your body when it’s time to hit the beach.

But these days, losing a pant size may not mean you’ve actually lost weight. A size 2 nowadays could be as much as 3 inches bigger than a size 2 just 10 years ago — which Cosmo calls “vanity sizing.” When you think about it, it’s brilliant…for them. If I could fit into a size 2 at a store, you’d better believe I’d buy the place out. So, if manufacturers by default make their products just a bit bigger than normal (throwing the size spectrum out of whack), they can make their customers feel good about themselves AND make a huge profit. There’s just something gratifying about being able to drop a size; we’ve become inherently number-centric and it’s only going to get worse!

This got me wondering how well “vanity sizing” works. As a test, I decided to ask 10 of my friends if they’d be more likely to buy clothes from a store that “inflated” their sizes — aka, they’d be able to fit into a size or two smaller than normal. ALL of them said yes. Without hesitation. All of them!

The thing I’ve always loved about bevello is that the company truly does cater to all sizes. When we ran as an online boutique, we put our clothes on all REAL people — real shapes, real sizes. And, honestly, I think that’s the way to go. Because, when it boils down to it…size ain’t nothin’ but a number. Preach!

dressing for your valentine’s day!

Regardless of whether you’ll recognize this Sunday as the celebration of love and St. Valentine or National Singles Awareness Day, you’re going to need a killer outfit. But perfect outfits one cannot make without the perfect accessory. Yes? But if you’re like me, you might find clothes and accessories specifically designed for Valentine’s to be a bit…tacky.

Well, we set out to find the hottest ways to make your Valentine’s statement WITHOUT going overboard. Yes, you CAN find ways to embrace the holiday without looking cheesy. These look-at-me pieces around will add a subtle hint of holiday spirit to your ensemble, whether you’re trying to either a) sweep your sig other off his everlovin’ feet or b) become a magnet for cupid’s arrow.


I can’t help but find this BeBe bag to be absolutely presh. Pair this with your favorite dress and add a festive (yet subtle) touch to your night’s outfit.


Yep, that’s right. LIPS. Tacky? Maybe. But pair it with a black mini-dress and you’ve got yourself a statement.


Add a floral touch to your look with this Rosette necklace from Arden B. It’s not too loud, but definitely girly and fun!

Those are just a few to try on for size — but the idea is to create an outfit as you would normally, then complete it with a good, festive accessory. I think you’ll find that with this holiday, less is more.

Think you have the hottest Valentine’s outfit? Post a picture in the comments! We’d love to see!

“Real” Beauty…?

Marie Claire Cover

Marie Claire Cover

Uhhhh…….

The February issue of Marie Claire Australia featured a nude and un-airbrushed “real woman” (Jennifer Hawkins) on it’s cover in an effort to support The Butterfly Foundation, an organization dedicated to helping Australians who have negative-body image issues and eating disorders. Well, as is the case with most nude covers , this one has caused quite a stir, especially among women.

Some of the questions and comments from readers on the cover have echoed my exact thoughts:

“How is that not airbrushed?”

“Is that Fergie?

“How will this possibly help people who don’t like their bodies?”

“Was she really the best candidate for this job?”

“What’s the big drama? I’d pose like that too, if I were her.”

“It’s actually pretty brave of her not to be airbrushed.”

“I could look like that if I had unlimited money for expensive food and a personal trainer….and money to buy more discipline.”

“This only promotes women as sex objects.”

“I wish I was a sex object.”

“I should probably put down the Baskin Robbins.”

Not all women are able to be (or should be!) Hawkin’s size, and I do wish there had been multiple body types represented on the magazine. There’s some magazine that consistently features three women in their 20s, 30s and 40s…does anyone know what it is? They have the right idea. Different beauty, all appreciated, not as much of a standard mold.

My final consensus? It’s a waste of time to agonize over the cover, just like it’s a waste of time to agonize over being J. Hawkin’s exact BMI. Sure, it’s easy to jealous-hate-on someone who is gorgeous without airbrushing (like I did for the first 20 minutes after seeing the cover), but in the end it isn’t worth the energy that you could have been putting into work, cooking, volunteering, reading, learning Italian or oh, I don’t know, do something healthy.

Related: the Self cover scandal with Kelly Clarkson. The blog by Jezebel does a good job of honestly discussing the situation and quoting from both sides. They’re clearly disagreeing with Self , but give plenty of reason why. Article One talks about the cover and Article Two talks about Self’s response. Interesting!

Post-holiday blues? Let bevello help…

Santa came. And went. 

And all you’re left with is broken ornament shards ground into the carpet, more candy canes than even Rudolf would know what to do with, and the petrifying possibility that a perfect, heart-stopping New Years kiss with a Brad Pitt look-a-like might possibly NOT be in your future. Hopefully you’re left with a few spiffy new gifts too, but who can think of those at such a worrisome time of the year? This is serious emotional stuff we’re dealing with here.

So if you’re weepy, cranky, melancholy or any other unattractive emotion that turns otherwise likable people into sad-sacks around this time of year, here are a few suggestions to perk up even the worst case of post-holiday depression. Because after all, sad-sacks are not only lame to hang out with, but they definitely don’t get New Years kisses at the stroke of midnight. 

Blog it out. I’ve always thought that personal blogs were the online equivalent of the obnoxious letters that some people (you know who you are) send out with their Christmas cards, updating the world on Little Johnny’s star performance on the football field and Princess Suzy’s acceptance to Harvard. Harsh but true:  nobody (with exception to your mother and that creepy kid from fourth grade who still stalks your Facebook profile) cares about every detail of your life. I think that’s also why I have such a hard time grasping the concept of Twitter… seriously? You went to the supermarket and saw a potato that looks like Homer Simpson? Sweet, thanks for letting the entire world know, you weirdo.  But I digress. Personal blogs can actually be a pretty therapeutic way to get all those yucky post-holiday emotions out into the universe and start getting back to the normal, fun and interesting person that we all know you are. Plus, your friends and family don’t have to listen to you whine and mope. Tell it to the blog. The blog won’t judge. The blog won’t tell you to suck it up and stop ruining everyone else’s fun. The blog won’t scold you for eating an entire carton of ice cream while watching Glee reruns. Probably no one will read it, and those who do accidentally stumble upon it might not really care that you’re feeling lousy, but you’ll feel better. I promise. And if you don’t, this post has two more tips, so go try those. 

Get out and/or plan some stuff. Okay, so that’s a little vague… but when was the last time you went ice skating? Round up a group of people and plan an outing to your local rink. Watching your friends faceplant on the ice will no doubt bring a smile to even the grouchiest Grinch. Still searching for New Years plans? Don’t wait around to be invited somewhere… throw your own party! The planning will keep your mind off the naked, dying Christmas tree in the trash heap and the anticipation of your amazing event will totally alleviate your holiday hangover symptoms. 

Retail Therapy. Maybe you didn’t quite make Santa’s nice list this year and that zebra-print Snuggie you had your heart set on wasn’t under the tree on Christmas morning. Sorry. It’s a bummer that you’ll be stuck using a regular blanket without sleeves. Hope your arms don’t get too cold. But I’ve learned, through many years of research and testing, that the best gifts are usually the ones with the tags that read “from me, to ME.” So gather up that Christmas cash, search out the receipt for those crazy toe-socks that Aunt Mildred thought “looked just like you” and go get something nice for yourself… possibly at a cute little boutique with both Raleigh and Winston-Salem locations? I know of a good one…

Ah, the joy of warm arms!

Ah, the joy of warm arms!

This article brought to you by Winston-Salem’s own shopgirl-extraordinaire, Jaci Gentile.

Victoria’s Secret 2009 Fashion Show!

What more could you want on a Tuesday night than gorgeous lingerie, glitter, glam and a plethora of musical talent?

The 2009 Victoria’s Secret Fashion show has come and gone — this one possibly topping all the rest in VS fashion history.

The show featured a 140-foot catwalk, 100 lbs of glitter, 124 feet of hair extensions, and a $3 million dollar bra. (Yep, that’s just ONE bra — a 150-carat jewel-encrusted bra, worn by Marisa Miller and designed by the Italian jeweler Damiani.) The Black Eyed Peas were musical guests, and, needless to say, Fergie rocked it out.

If you didn’t catch the show on TV, check it out in full on Hulu.

Fun fact: it took over 200 hours to create all the wings you see during the show. Keep an eye out for them!

P.S. My roommates and I find that the show is best watched with a plate of cookies in tow. Just sayin’.

What a grand opening!

Last Thursday, bevello’s Winston-Salem location hosted it’s grand opening. Check out some of the photos from this fun, elegant evening. A special thanks goes to Sarah Lafferty, bve-ws’s event coordinator (she’s the one responsible for the adorable apple centerpieces)!

Also, congratulations to Marcia Szewczyk for winning the opening night prize…$100.oo bevello gift certificate! Lucky you…

A good shot of the centerpieces and the men hiding while the women shopped

A good shot of the centerpieces and the men hiding while the women shopped

Sarah and Jaci chat up an enthusiastic customer (who also happens to be Sarah's mom)

Sarah and Jaci chat up an enthusiastic customer (who also happens to be Sarah's mom)

Just look at that good looking asymmetrical green top! Where EVER did you get that?

Just look at that good looking asymmetrical green top! Where EVER did you get that?

Natalie encourages bevello patrons to enter to win $100 bevello bucks...not a hard sell!

Natalie encourages bevello patrons to enter to win $100 bevello bucks...not a hard sell!

Customers checking out some of the funky earrings

Customers checking out some of the funky earrings

Sarah helps a customer find the price tag buried in the turtleneck on this cute YA dress

Sarah helps a customer find the price tag buried in the turtleneck on this cute YA dress

Customers inspect a jumper/long sleeve combo from RYU

Customers inspect a jumper/long sleeve combo from RYU

Would you like a little wine with that cheese?

Would you like a little wine with that cheese?

beauties blissfully bonding at bevello

beauties blissfully bonding at bevello

paper planes? no, try shoes

I’ve seen some pretty wonky shoe fashions, but I think this takes the cake. Le Creative Sweatshop has invented the newest in stiletto fashion — origami??

I have to say, I’m kind of digging them. You could totally leave yourself notes on them and everything. ;-) Wonder what would happen to them in the rain, though?

One thing’s for sure, this is pretty cutting edge. Ha ha, get it? Like paper cut?

STYL’D!

THIS SUNDAY. Someone please tell me that I wont be the only one watching the series premiere of Styl’d — a new reality contest show on MTV about working as a fashion stylist.

C-ch-ch-check out the video below for a quick preview of what is to come!

Four junior stylists get a chance to work at the presigious Margaret Maldonado Agency to compete for a permanent job position. They’ll be styling stars like the lovely Kim Kardashian (and I don’t know about you, but since the end of Kourtney and Khloe Take Miami, I’ve been going through Kardashian withdrawals).

This is a new one, for sure. It’s like The Rachel Zoe project meets America’s Next Top Model…but better? Is that possible? I think so.

At least now we have something to look forward to once Halloween is over! So, keep it safe, Bevello-ers! Until then,

Bve,
Kelly

The eye of the beholder?

So I was perusing one of my favorite celebrity gossip sites (Oh No They Didn’t, whats up?) when I found a super interesting video. An amazing photoshop artist took a picture of Leighton Meester (most of you may know her as Blair from Gossip Girl) and photoshopped her face to “glam” her up. Check it out:

Isn’t that CRAZY? Makes you wonder how much photoshopping is done on the covers of magazines, etc, with our favorite celebrities. There’s been a lot of controversy lately with that Ralph Lauren ad, where a team photoshopped a perfectly normal-sized model to be super-skinny to “fit the look.” Crazy, huh?

Dove released an “Evolution of Beauty” video that shows how much pictures are processed before they become advertisements:

What do you guys think about this? I have to say, I’m not a huge fan of the super-’shopped and svelte look. Seems kinda wrong, huh?

The great part about my job as a blogger is that I get to represent a company that DOESN’T produce highly edited models wearing their clothes. We have real girls, real bodies — real people. What could be better than that?

tis the season for cardigans

This is it. The time of year I wait patiently for EVERY YEAR — the autumnal equinox. Why, you ask? Because this time of year, it’s chilly but not overly so. You see, now is the perfect time to don your most favorite of cardigans — and you won’t have to hide it under a heavy winter coat.

And the bevello fall collection has you covered.

This season, I NEED to own this:
And the bevello fall collection
This gorgeous cardigan vest, made by up-and-coming designer C. Luce, is truly a one-of-a-kind design. I love the ruffles, and the fringe trim gives the illusion of pearls — complete elegance. The rosette on the left side is the perfect cherry to this truly unique piece.

Or try this longer look:

This asymmetrical cardigan, designed by Trinity, can be layered with any bottom and still look fierce. Buttons run diagonally down the right side. Pair it with a cowl neck (like our directors have done!) and you will be, as Rachel Zoe says, OOC (Out of CONTROL).

And, uno mas from Trinity:

The cardigan is rouched in the back to give a nice bohemian vibe, and the beautiful emerald green color just sets the piece on fire. FIRE! The front flows freely at your sides. So chic.

Ah, clothes like these almost make Mondays bearable. Almost?